i remember my first driving lesson, i used my every single inch of muscle to squeeze onto the steering wheel as if i let it go, the car would fall apart. looking back, it is silly and i am sure it was funny to my very first teacher.
sometime, i try my best to hold on to things matters to me. but life is much more complicated than a machine; am i just holding onto the steering instead? no idea and i would probably never know.
trying to look things from a distance or with another perspective helps a bit actually.
job well done & keep it up...
